Don`t Punish the Present for what the past has done

The more love you give out it seems to backfire now or days, time and time again. Friends, family, and definitely relationships. I know we all have been damaged in some way at some point in our life. However how long do we hide behind that excuse to justify bleeding out on others? We are humans we were made to give, and receive love. Easier said than done right? Due to unforeseen circumstances that have occurred in people lives that has taken away from them instead of adding onto them, the people who didn’t cause them pain are now victims. It’s a cycle, experienced hurt victims create new ones intentionally, and unintentionally. At the end of the day this does not accomplish anything. We glorify toxicity which consists of being bad, being harmful to one another. Is this because we are so used to trauma? They say love wins but in contemporary society it seems to get you hurt because it is too overwhelming for those who are too use to trauma. Don’t punish those in front of you for the mistakes made by the ones behind you.